tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4740534540873797768.post5288430843237341048..comments2023-07-14T08:53:17.595-07:00Comments on Perry Family: 4 yearsKamihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00936684112572107735noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4740534540873797768.post-9878285025434668662010-02-02T23:14:18.941-07:002010-02-02T23:14:18.941-07:00i know. and yet we can't blame others for not...i know. and yet we can't blame others for not wanting ot talk or know what to say or what questions to ask because we were the same way before this happened to us.amyrayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17613735498722875019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4740534540873797768.post-23554616011597201402010-01-29T23:14:20.502-07:002010-01-29T23:14:20.502-07:00I run into this all the time with my girls. My old...I run into this all the time with my girls. My oldest is adopted (she's my brother's daughter) and when people ask them what grade they are in, they both reply "3rd." Then they look at me and ask how far apart are they and when I tell them 10 months, I almost always get this look like 'you didn't wait at all did you?' <br /><br />You are absolutely right about not knowing what other peoples' situations are...Jenny from the Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10806012786400984071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4740534540873797768.post-55538893206023276432010-01-29T20:14:49.323-07:002010-01-29T20:14:49.323-07:00Its true - we don't know what others have been...Its true - we don't know what others have been through and its very easy to get stuck in the "why me". Sometimes we have to do what feels right in our heart - regardless of what other people think. I can't get myself to talk about Daniel - not the way I would like - but I'm trying to do things in my life that give "hints" to others that he is always in my heart. What an awful feeling to love your child so much but somehow feel like that is not okay in some way. I hate feeling this way. <br /><br />I've also had the "How far apart?" question and sometimes I hear - "Four years - oh how perfect!" If only they knew how "unperfect" it really was. :(Marissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10535064759135390374noreply@blogger.com